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Friday, July 9, 2010
It is time for my next trip this summer. I am heading south once again. This time I am not stopping in Missouri, in fact I am not even stopping in the US. I am traveling to Mexico.
One of the great things about going to Mexico two year in a row is that I get to reunite with lots of the same people.
It is so good to make good friends and to spend time together. We started off meeting at the Chapel service and gathered for a large group picture.
The other nice thing about returning to the same place is that you know more what to pack. Here Emily is modeling her brand new pink tool belt and her father's hammer with the largest hammering surface.
Side story - Last year as Emily was attempting to nail in a board, she missed so many times in a row that the man running the trenching machine for the crew installing a sewer line, told her to get down, and then he hammered the nail. And no we have not let her forget it.
See ya next week!!
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
For detail on AbFab's trip to Sikeston Check out the official blog.
Our assignment this week was to help out the Missouri Mission . This is a place where men with various problems and addiction can start their life over.
The first task was to knock out the existing counter and drawers that were between the two closets in order to make more closet space. We divided all of the kids and adults into teams and each team was assigned a room.
The man who lived in the room we were assigned to eyed us a bit cautiously. Who could blame him? Nothing like having a group of kids ages 12 to 14 invade your room and start moving your stuff.
Finally we moved everything onto the beds, pushed the beds into the center of the room and began to tape off for painting. Oh and the demolition? Well quickly, I saw the need for some safety rules when two boys started swinging the hammers as hard as they could. I decided we would take turns, three hits and then the the next person could swing three times. I told the kids it was like a pinata. They bought it. The counter and drawers were removed with no injuries.
Finally the paint arrived and the kids attacked (I mean painted carefully).
We painted the entire ceiling and then began painting the walls. My team began with lots of enthusiasm.
This enthusiasm lasted until after lunch, when all the energy was gone. It was a long afternoon.
Luckily the success or failure of any mission trip is never decided on my the first day. By Wednesday, my team was completely different. We started our second room and finished in less than one day what had take us two day to accomplish in the first room. The kids took the lead and I have never been so amazed by a group of kids aged 12 to 14. I was honored to have witnessed the transformation.
Oh and the first resident that we unexpectedly moved in on on Monday, well he made a point of giving the team several packets of Crystal Light and a box of cookies. From a man who entire possessions could be stacked on two beds, the gift was heartfelt and meant so much to all of us.
Here was another Thank you note from another resident. He and his assigned team communicated by leaving notes on his white board.
The week was a challenge for all the kids but especially for the Middle Geek. He finally found a knack for painting and got into the work on the final day.
He also found some great friends, that was his overwhelming response - "Wow, I made some great friends this week."
I was overwhelmed with the attention from the cooks. These two ladies cooked everything from scratch - cinnamon rolls, dinner rolls, coffee cake. I brought all of my own food for the Middle Geek (like I usually do) but they went out of their way to make sure he could eat dinner like everyone else. They even found some So Delicious brand Ice Cream so he could have dessert every night too.
Just when I thought it couldn't get any better, we were at the last chapel service on Thursday night where we had communion. I am not sure where my mind was - maybe it was the heat or the exhaustion - but I stood up to get in line for communion and realized that I had not gotten any gluten free bread for the Middle Geek. I watched him hang back and sit back down (He hates standing out in any way) when all of a sudden on of the women who had cooked for us all week, is stand right by him with a slice of his bread. She had run back to the kitchen for it.
There was plenty of time to do lots of fun stuff. We had a movie night, and one night we had a talent show. The Middle Geek joined with a group and they played - Lean on Me. Oh yea he rocked the drums.
We also went to a local park and spent one evening at a swimming pool. There were two diving boards so the Middle Geek worked on his front and back flips.
And is anyone curious about my Indian Visa? Well it was approved last Wednesday. This is a picture of me "discussing" the approval.
Yes she told me several times to "calm down".
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Because I just happen to have my schedule clear for this week and next (ahem). I remembered that the Middle School Mission Trip was scheduled during the same week.
So I decided to be - that person. You know, the one that calls last minute and says, "Hey I know the sign up for this event is long past, and you have been working hard finalizing your plans, but you know I just happen to be free now and so, can I join you?"
And if that wasn't enough....
"Also the Middle Geek, whom I will be bringing, will not be back in town until later on Sunday, so I will drive us down separate. We will be a bit late, oh that mandatory parent meeting, I will probably miss that, and what is the menu, because my child can't eat anything."
I don't understand why the Youth Misister was not just THRILLED.
But some things are meant to be. So tomorrow the Middle Geek and I will be headed for a week at Work Camp. I will take lots of pics.
And I am trading in a trip to Southern India for one to Southern Missouri.
The Question: So what has AbFab been doing with herself since the unexpected change in plans?
I have been determined not to sit around and mope this week thinking about all I am missing in India. I just had on lapse when Cory sent me a short email (that's all they have been able to do. There is no WiFi and just one computer. When it rains, the electricity goes out.) Anyway he mentioned that the students had asked the engineers to teach - or perform- a song or dance. Cory was hoping they would forget. He did get away without singing, but he told me he go video of Kate and Theresa teaching the students the Macarena. Oh what I would have given to be a part...
Last week I was an incredibly lucky winner on Houseparty . I won all of the equipment to do your own canning. The package arrived and it had a large canning pot and all the equipment. They sent me four coupons for free cases of canning jars, fruit pectin, lots of other coupons to hand out, reusable canvas bags. It even had a large flip chart to walk you through the steps of canning. There were also recipes for salsa and pepper jelly.
The idea of these parties is that the manufacturer send you the makings of a party and informally you and your friends try out the new products.
I had never canned before but I love to cook and try new things so this seemed like lots of fun. I decided to make the salsa - I have some frozen tomatoes from last season that needed to be used and some fresh cilantro in the garden. I did not want to make the pepper jelly because while I like it, I wasn't sure that it would be enjoyed by the majority. Instead I went through the recipe book (also supplied) and picked out Strawberry Jam.
So I canned 24 small jars of Strawberry Jam, 16 slightly larger jars of salsa, and because there were three larger jars included decided to try pickles.
The verdict. The Strawberry Jam was awesome and a big hit. The salsa was good but I think needed more salt. And the pickles, oh my the pickles were the best ever. I had some small seedless cucumbers from CostCo. I cut them into wedges and chose the easiest recipe of vinegar and salt and sugar. Then I added one chipotle pepper. I processed the pickles for 15 minutes. The next day I put one jar in the refrigerator because the College Geek and I could not wait (He is a pickle pig.) They were only the BEST PICKLES EVER.
Sunday, June 6, 2010
So I bet all of you are here looking for some exciting news of my trip to India. I can hear you now, "Why AbFab must be getting on that plane today. I wonder when she will post an update on her exciting trip."
Well unfortunately you all will have to keep waiting for that update.
In a very sad turn of events, I am not leaving for India today. Instead I am sitting in my very own living room typing out this posting. (sob)
To make a very long story short - Out of our group of eight travelers, there were three that did not get our Visas approved by the Indian government. And yes, I was on of the three without a Visa.
That means no trip to India for AbFab. At least not this trip.
I am truly hoping that I can get approval for the planned December/January trip. There is a group that is planning on returning then to supervise the building of the designed toilets. Everyone please cross your fingers.
In the meantime, the assessment trip must go on.
I transfered school supplies that I had had donated for the school we were visiting - along with coloring books and jump ropes - to the students bags.
I also gave them some of the engineering tools for the assessment - Some hand surveying equipment to determine elevations and diffusion tubes to use to measure indoor air pollution. (This will be used in households were they cook indoors on wood burning or charcoal stoves.)
There they are at the airport. I made them pose for an embarrassing picture. I had planned to make them pose in pictures all week so they got off easy.
And there they are --- walking into the airport --- without me ......
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Thursday, May 27, 2010
KFC doesn't have anything on the Middle Geek. Here he is displaying his very own Double Down*, which he made for breakfast.
*What is in the MG Double Down? Well I am sure you do not want to know. Really, you don't.
Okay, you insist.
First you take one slice of lunch meat. MG prefers bologna or turkey - Oscar Meyer. Then you add a generous amount of Sunflower Butter and Grape Jelly. Cover with a second slice of lunch meat and seal the edges.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
My second planned trip for the summer is in July and I am going to Mexico.
My church has traveled to Mexico every summer to build houses. Last summer was the first time that I went with them.
The exciting difference this year -- I am taking the Middle Geek!!!
This is bound to be a time for growth for both of us. I am so excited for the Middle Geek to get out of his small suburban life and see some of the wonders and wondrous people that are out there.
I am also glad that he and I will have this week during the summer before he enters High School to spend time side by side.
To raise money for this trip, I organized - with tremendous help of family and friends - an EPIC Garage Sale*. (*quote by Middle Geek) It was lots of work but in two days of sales we raised almost 800 dollars.
This is going to be quite the summer.
Monday, May 3, 2010
I have big plans for travel this Summer.
First trip in June is India!! Can you believe it?
Our chapter of Engineers Without Borders is starting a new project near Pathanamthitta, India This is the southern part of India. We are going to work closely with a school and a small community of families. The first request that we have had is toilet facilities for the school. Right now the school uses a three walled enclosure for the toilet (number 1 only). The first trip is an assessment trip and we will evaluate which sort of toilet will be the best fit.
How many types of toilets are there?
To start with there are Pit Latrines. You know you dig a hole and put a seat on top on the hole. When the hole fills up, you bury it and dig a new latrine of you shovel it out.
Then there are various composting toilets that may be appropriate depending on the utilities available and user acceptance. There is no sense in building a wonderful composting toilet that no one uses or worse yet, everyone uses but no one maintains.
A water flush toilet even has many choices depending on the water supply and the options of where to send the waste - septic or sewer?
See I told you engineers are wonderful, that think about all your sh%%t so yo don't have to.
We will also be interviewing the poorest part of the community that live in thatched houses. We want to know what is there greatest need in the community, rather it be water, sanitation, better cooking stoves, or rain drainage.
This will be an exciting trip.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
For over a year (since my first trip to Haiti) I have been involved with the group Engineers Without Borders. I have never been quiet about my enjoyment about all (well most) thing engineering. I truly think that engineers can make a big difference in the world and there are several organizations that are forming for that purpose.
One of these groups is Engineers Without Borders. It was formed in 2000 by a man in Colorado and this video gives the background.
When you think of how lives can be changed by simple tools of engineering such as water delivery, I believe that engineers morally obligated to move out of our comfort zones and from behind our computers.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Our church is beginning a sermon series based on the MTV show - My Buried Life. This led to an interesting dinner conversation where we all started our Life List. (College Geek is at college, so I will have to add his later.)
Sing in a Gospel Choir
Be interviewed by Stephen Colbert
Visit Kibeho in Rwanda
Write a book
Mr. Geek's List
Ride a bike from St. Louis to Chicago
Ride across the United States by bikeRide across Europe on bike
Be a grandpa
See the Tour de France
Race an Iron man
Middle Geek's List
Ride the fastest roller coaster in the world
Become a professional drummer
Go to Disney World
Ride a bike from St. Louis to Chicago
Learn how to do a back flip on the ground
Stay home alone for an entire day
Littlest Geek's List
Work at the Pokemon Center in Japan
Go to Disney World
Go on a walk alone far from home